Love Lost & Found Podcast Series: Looking for Love by Psychic Angelica

By Psychic Angelica x9393

The best time to attract love is when you are in love with your life and yourself!  Like attracts like at the core of our true beliefs. Self-love is reflected in the choices we make, the people that gravitate into our lives, and our personal boundaries.

A healthy, loving romantic relationship is an equal partnership.  A partnership that is not grounded in or maintained by a fear of being alone. A dance where both people have done or are doing their inner work. Looking for someone to fill our voids normally ends up in disaster. It is no one’s job to make us happy, and abundant, or to feel good about ourselves. When we focus on creating happiness and abundance for ourselves, we gain a sense of confidence and independence that is a magnet for the same to show up in our life in experiences, opportunities, and people.

So instead of going out and looking for love in all the wrong places change your perspective on love and meeting that special person. Go on a journey of self-discovery. Get to know you first. Spend time learning who you really are at your core and what you truly desire in another person. There is nothing attractive about being desperate or needy.  To bring in a healthy relationship means you have to be healthy.  Being healthy is reflected in your attitude, lifestyle, and energy.

Here are some tips on going within and creating a healthy foundation for love, romance, and partnership:

• Try new things. Figure out what you like and what you don’t like. When you take the time to learn what you like you become more focused, happier, and in alignment with fulfillment. Knowing what your passions, hobbies, and desire are give you more opportunities to share these things with someone else.
• Remember you can’t give what you don’t have. If you seek happiness and love on your own from within you will attract love and happiness from others as well. If you desire abundance and stability in a partner, become stable and abundant. If you are seeking truth and honesty, be truthful and honest. Once you clearly know what you desire from another person you can then make sure you are incorporating those characteristics in yourself as well.
• Learn to be alone and enjoy it. Bravely overcome your fears and limits. Trust yourself, your heart, and your inner wisdom. Learning to be alone and liking can be a fun goal to achieve.